How to Practice Reaching Out for Friendship

As our team sat down to talk about the idea behind Moment, one thing was clear: we've all felt it. That strange disconnection — even when you're surrounded by people — that leads to endlessly scrolling your phone, wishing you had someone to share a moment with.

We all crave connection. But actually reaching out? That’s the hard part. Somewhere between the chaos of adult life and the noise of the digital world, friendship has started to feel like a luxury — when it’s really a necessity. Especially now.

So how do we get better at reaching out, even when life feels like one never-ending to-do list? The Moment team put together a few simple tips to help make that first step a little easier.

Step 1: Relearn How to Say “Hey”

There’s something tender about the first “hey.” Whether it’s reconnecting with an old friend or introducing yourself to someone new, that moment holds potential — for laughter, shared secrets, even healing.

But many of us hesitate because vulnerability feels risky. What if they don’t respond? What if it’s awkward? The truth is, it might be. But connection often starts awkward — and then, beautifully, it isn’t.

That’s why platforms like Moment exist: to make that first step easier. Moment helps you meet people through shared activities — from pottery workshops to pick-up basketball — so “hey” doesn’t hang awkwardly in the air. It happens naturally, while you’re both doing something you enjoy.

Step 2: Create Small Opportunities for Connection

Friendship rarely happens through grand gestures. More often, it’s born from small invitations — “Want to grab coffee?” “Join me for a walk?” “Let’s check out that art show.”

With Moment, you can literally create these moments with just a few taps. Host a cozy game night, join someone’s dance class, or find a last-minute concert buddy. These aren’t just meetups — they’re stepping stones toward genuine friendship.

Every time you create or join a “Moment,” you’re saying yes to possibility — to showing up, to letting connection happen organically.

Step 3: Let Go of the Pressure to Be Perfect

We often hold back from reaching out because we’re afraid we’ll say the wrong thing or come off as needy. But real friendship isn’t about performing; it’s about showing up authentically.

Moment’s design reflects that philosophy — it celebrates short-term, low-pressure connections. You can share experiences without the weight of long-term commitment. If you click, great. If not, that’s okay too. You move on with your privacy intact and your heart a little more open. Moment helps building low maintenance friendships easier.

Step 4: Nurture What You Start

Reaching out is the spark — but staying connected is the fire. The truth? Friendships need gentle maintenance, even the low-maintenance kind.

Send a meme that reminded you of them. Drop a “just thinking of you” text. Or better yet, invite them to your next Moment — maybe a hike, trivia night, or morning run. When you keep weaving these little threads, the bond grows stronger.

Because friendships aren’t built in a day; they’re built in the moments we choose to show up.

Apps like Moment don’t replace friendship; they remind us how to begin. They help us step out of isolation, one shared experience at a time.

So, the next time you catch yourself scrolling endlessly, wishing for company, take that as your cue. Open Moment. Say yes to that event. Start the chat. Your next great friend might be waiting just a few blocks — or a few taps — away.

✨ Ready to start reaching out for real friendship?
Download Moment today, create your first moment, and turn everyday boredom into face to face connection. Because sometimes, all it takes to change your life is one moment.