How Moment Make Planning Hangouts Simpler

In our previous blog, we explored why asking someone out can be so challenging. If you’ve felt this way, you’re not alone. The act of inviting someone to hang out often feels like exposing yourself to the possibility of rejection, which can be especially daunting for those who are shy or unsure of how to approach the situation.

This struggle goes beyond just making the invitation; it’s deeply rooted in psychological and social factors that can make the task seem overwhelming. We identified that asking people to hang out can be difficult due to:

• Fear of Rejection
• Overthinking
• Lack of Confidence
• Uncertainty of Their Interests
• Busy Schedules
• Past Experiences

Understanding these challenges, our team has worked to address them through our app, ensuring that connecting with others is simpler and more effective.

How Moment Helps with Asking People Out for Hangouts

The good news is that our app can significantly ease the process of planning hangouts, addressing many of these challenges in innovative ways.

Reducing Social Anxiety

Moment helps to mitigate the fear of rejection by:

• Encouraging General Interest: Instead of directly asking someone to hang out, our app’s flow allows you to create a moment which is essentially an invitation for an activity, rather than targeting a specific person which makes it less nervousing. This subtle approach lowers the stakes and makes the interaction feel less risky.
• Highlighting Shared Interests: When someone expresses interest in your Moment, the app highlights shared hobbies and interests, making the interaction more comfortable. For example, if you’re a fan of board games, you can connect with others who have a similar passion, easing the anxiety of reaching out.

Reducing Overthinking

Moment simplifies the decision-making process by offering a clear, straightforward call to action:

• "Show Interest" CTA: The app’s single CTA, "Show Interest," minimizes the mental effort and stress typically associated with planning opening lines or finding mutual connections. This allows you to focus on the activity itself, rather than overthinking the approach.

Enhancing Self-Confidence

By emphasizing common ground, Moment helps boost self-confidence:

• Validating Shared Interests: Knowing that others share your interests can make you feel more confident in reaching out. For instance, if you love hiking, you’ll find it easier to invite someone to join you on a trail when you know they’re equally enthusiastic about outdoor adventures.

Addressing Busy Schedules

Moment’s flexible scheduling options make it easier to find a time that works for everyone:

• Flexible Scheduling: Whether you want to hang out today, tomorrow, or later in the week, Moment allows you to suggest broad time range thus ensuring interested people and you can carve out the accommodating busy schedules & do meet as Moment are short-lived invitations so if you don't plan a meet. The moment expires. The focus is on the activity first, with scheduling coming second.

Overcoming Past Experiences

Moment allows users to approach new interactions with a fresh perspective:

• No History, No Pressure: Unlike other apps where past rejections might weigh you down, Moment offers a clean slate with every new Moment created. If someone doesn’t respond to one activity, it doesn’t mean they won’t be interested in another. This freedom encourages users to keep exploring without the burden of past experiences.

That said violating community guidelines and displaying bad behaviour gets you kicked out too.

Whether you’re new to a city, looking to expand your social circle, or simply seeking to organize your social life more efficiently, Moment can transform the way you approach planning. Embrace the simplicity and effectiveness of Moment to turn those challenging hangout invitations into enjoyable and stress-free experiences.

So, the next time you’re hesitant about reaching out, try using Moment to find like-minded people, simplify your planning, make genuine connections, and focus on enjoying the moments that matter most.